Was proud of telling mom he would always have money for beer and he always did.
Dad never was taught that when married he was no longer one. That money, love and family was more important then the joy of what made him smile.
Your childrens friendship was more important then someone that works for you. Trust and love go hand on hand.
Put others needs before what he wanted. This week a dear friend came from Montena had traits like my dad.
I know what mom and I went through at the hands of a narcississ and what he did to us my older half sister continues to do.
I knew not at first but when what she said changed from what was convienant. All she had to say was I can not come to see you I was jipped out of the bonus and the extra money promised the office staff at the H&R Block in Plains Montena.
My friend needs to take H&R Block to the labor board. Never allow companies to use its workers. I worked for people like that who out right lied to their employees.
The truth I understand not being called half way into her trip ito Iowa ‘Sorry Baby I gambled away $100, and stayed over night in a hotel.’ Well hell this is the season. Hospitality was my field rooms went from fifty dollars to two hundred maybe more a night now a night.
Then upon arrival in Ossian Iowa Im told she traveled on her rent money. Oh my god! I thought twenty minutes then I went in and told her I was not at this tome returning with her. She had gone from putting on a hitch and renting a trailer to me buying tubs and storing my books and treasures.
I lost my home in 2005. For nine years my stuff sat in boxes. I was not about to leave my treasures to move to a place with no money. I mean No money! No rent paid. I was told there are programs to pay rent. My fucking god! The goverment is not parents to the oeople dump that sorry ass human service department.
All I heard for a year was how great Montena was and how if I was out of Iowa I could finally get or find the money for my Rural Ride Share and Delivery business.Why why not here in northern Iowa filling a niche in the Iowa my ancestors came to in cover wagons.
So Im staying in the midwest.
[[So many things mom went without and when dad died she simply wanted to be in Iowa with her family.When I get the paper work kept for me by my advisor at Luther College I will post in a video all the blatant lies my older half sister told the government to bully our mom where mom Marian D. Bittenger Heike from her home 405 2nd street N.E.Waukon Iowa 52172.]]