Like in life you are taught in school how to write a letter.You learn who to trust.Not to trust.Whose is aceptable by a community to love. One underlining bedrock bit of felt knowledge was that family always stand beside you.
Was that thought less a thing I imagined? Did I feel it and not hear it from a Christmas movie or a movie by Halmark? Its not true. If you grew up in a home where dad was an alcholic. Dad’s weapon was verbal abuse and spanking.
When my half sister decided I had one more use left Emotional empath Val would be that useful tool she always was I was a full time student carrying a full class load.2012 made up lies are all you need in Iowa. I lived at home helped mom did more begore 2008 when I was struck by a 93 year old retired attorney on my bike after a final, August 11th,2008.
Funny thing about rules legal, medical, life and death. It was like my life was a phrase ‘Don’t bother!’ A year before I hot hit a Palmer don,18 delievering Praire Shoppers hit on his bike, killed. My bike was totalled, no CT scan poor lesbian who had returned to college.Funny she wanted to teach history. I wanted mom and me to have a better life.My right wrist smashed to bits not kept over night.
Waukon Veterans Memorial Hospital was not kept over night went home made supper for mom and dad. Once furing that time I asked Ellen Mathis my sister to pick up cough drops .I had not dropped and classes.Wore a cast for 6 weeks as my right wrist heeeled.
Of course Ellen could not say sure.I would have.Ellen said why, followed by why can’t Val do it.No thought to the high percentile of those hit by a car that never walk ,talk or breath again.
If mom had needed something Ellens responce would have been the same. Ellens answer would have been the same let Val do it. I was never taught the word Schmuck and yet I have two sisters that qualify.
There is proven evidence that narcississ are not born that way it is taught.Dianas dad was the father Iowa Human Service dept. Who loved beating mom when she carried Diana and because he could. She was until 8 raised by grandparents.I believe Diana is who she is which mom always said just like her fathers mom.
No sign of Empathy in the narcississist socialpath.
Life should have rules.
My number 1 would be care and love your family. Treasure them. They are a part of you.Stand up for them.Never through them to the lions. If you know they are innocent don’t lie about them. If one sister is bullying to to push the gay sister under the train spit in her eyes.
2 Friends are great but family first because nothing makes empaths bleed faster then alone tossed aside as you lie to our mom. Funny in 2019 you have no defense against buillies in the hate crime that took your life while your killer steels all you had and lies everyone. Why is there no crime and punishment for liers and murder of Character?
3. People need to be taught how to adenify narcississ.