Why is it? Why do people treat family like friends? Why do divorce half sisters whose only skill set was being divorced by husbands imagine that’s how one treats Gay family?
We , family are not your’e mates. Families Not your buddies. You can not get off slandering us, Gaslighting our moms into believing lies and we do nothing about the emotional damage done to us and simply think that’s o.k. Why because I’m not a friend to simply stop hanging out with.
Avoiding me is not going to put me off! Not allowing me to talk to my mom, whispering to my kid sister will never be alright.Because Frankly Diana Lee Dudley I don’t give a damn! We were Never friends my half dister and me , the fact that you are just my half sister makes me rejoice like a Lutheran minister with a full church in the summer.
Full not with out of town visitors or relatives but people who are Lutherans there on purpose. The last family gathering I attended was the memorial service for my dad in 2012. That was the last time I saw my aunt Clarion Lovitt.Aunt Clarian died last July.
No one bothered to call me tell me ‘Say Val your favorite aunt is ill or that she died!’ I found it out in December 2018 see I Goggled Clarions name because I wanted her address. You got to admit that’s cold.
Did this writer lover of words die and no one bother to see past Diana’s narsissistic words and lies of hates to care. You know my crime I lived and cared for my mom while Diana slung lies around to gorce our mom from her Iowa home into her clutches!
No one cared that mom was never an invalid and that was one of Dianas major lies. My mom wanted yo talk to me in December.An email was sent from Diana to Dr.Jeanette Pillsbury of Luther College telling Doc that mom mailed me letters that were returned to mom.
Bullshit! I have been in Ossian Iowa since August 2018 all mail sent to old address got to me. Not moms! Another of Diana’s lies. Mom’s mail did not get to me because it was not sent. Diana wanted my phone number but you know what though it was not sent to her she sent me a text last month telling me she’d see me in jail.
Once a week I had been calling mom’s magic Jack phone number not getting mom.
In Feb 2019 mom wanted Nothing to do with me and Diana threatened me vie a cop in Granbury Texas with harrassment! I have Not spoke to my mom since May last year! I have attemped 3 wellness checks on my MOM! Its not ok to lie to my mom. Telling her lies about me .
How in hell is that Harrassment! Last June 3rd I went to see my kid sister I had not spoke to since October 2015 at my great nieces birthday party . Diana knew I planned to visit Ellen.No one told me after 4 years of mom PLEADING TO GO TO IOWA diana was hoing to take mom!
No one told me! Diana called the sherriff Department in Allamakee County.I need an attorney before mom and I are dead and Diana totally gets away with setting a fire to finally force mom from her home.Her smoke killed me twice it will do it again.
Im gay with out my mom and family breathing has no purpose. Matthew Shepard lucked out without a dead body people see no hate. You do not have to see the hate she dumped on mom and me in harrassment.Its all documented. Why is horror only real in a theater?
Do you have a mom? Pat an adopted sister in Postville Iowa is 72 her mother in law is 99 Pat says she would never allow this to happen to her mom. Surely I should have the right for defense being innocent accused by a narcississtic slug. Gaslighted mom for a year with the lies I wrote horrible things about my mom and deserved to be off mom’s will!
Where’s justice for innocent gay family members?